They're both sexy in their own right. I've always been attracted to Indian women and some men. I'd gladly have sex with them both (100% Bisexual/Versatile).
Sounds like you're insecure. What's so wrong about an older man having sex with a 21 year old woman? I'm in my late 50s and had sex with a 20 year old just 3 years ago. You know why so many younger women seek out older men? We're more experienced, secure (emotionally and financially) and we know how to make a woman cum because we grew up in an era before Internet porn, which has given the wrong impression of what real sex is to members of younger generations.